Let's face it, thinking of how to spend a first date is not the easiest thing to do. Anyone conscious and nervous on the first date might risk having a disastrous first meet up. We all know that a traditional way of spending the first date is having a casual dinner. But perhaps a few more fresh ides can help loosen the mood between two individuals meeting for the first time. Here are some of the good ways to spend a first date.

Go to a museum or an art gallery. Those who are concerned with the lack of things to talk about with their dates can try visiting an art gallery or a museum. This will help if both persons share the same passions in art and history. These places are proven to encourage the natural flow of discussion which can also reveal a lot on the personality of both persons.

Going outdoors is also a good option. Parks and gardens as well as sculpture parks are good places where one can spend a first date. It also offers a more laidback atmosphere that can help in triggering a more natural and free flowing conversation.

The zoo is yet another fresh and good place to spend a first date. You can always enjoy the sights and sounds of animals, and it will allow both of you to roam around the area. Again since this is a laid back atmosphere there's always a chance that you can encourage your date to speak up and be more natural.

Like zoos, a first date can be spent on an amusement part. Those wanting a more casual atmosphere can go for amusement parks and enjoy activities like water rapids, roller coasters, and white knuckle rides. These activities are sure to break down inhibitions and provide both persons an adrenaline rush.

If both of you like golf, try a game of miniature golf; there are miniature golf courses which are inexpensive ways to enjoy a round of golf. You can also bring out the innate competitiveness and fun loving side of your date.

One can also visit a nearby sea side resort and enjoy an afternoon of quiet and relaxing stroll. For the adventurous type, ghost hunting is a fun and unique way to spend a first date.