Comedy Theater
Laughing together can break the ice better than anything else. Take
in a comedy show and relax together whilst you giggle away the evening.
Just avoid too much alcohol or offensive performers.
Billiards
If you’re looking for a casual way to relate to each other and
break the ice, try a friendly game of pool. Eight Ball is simple to
understand, and if things really go well, you might be able to help her
improve her break.
Miniature Golf
So eighteen holes would be a bit much for almost any date, but ten
holes of putt-putt might be right up your alley. Nobody does
exceptionally well at miniature golf, but it is always fun to play
–especially if you cheat a little bit every now and then. Let those
secrets help bring you closer.
Dinner Theater
There is nothing wrong with dinner and show, but try a show that
sizzles. Skip the cinema, and find a quality dinner theater. Watch
professionals act without the assistance of computer animated special
effects whilst you enjoy a meal together. The arts are always an
excellent choice.
Coffee
There is no need to sign away your entire evening to a first date.
Start small. Try meeting for coffee just to size each other up. If a
coffee date goes well, extend the date by heading off for grander
adventures together.
Concert
While a heavy metal concert might not be the best place to try and
get to know each other, a concert in the park or jazz festival might be
perfect. Appreciate music together and have a basis for continuous
conversation.
Museum
Who says a date can’t be educational? Enjoy an art or history
museum and learn together. If you haven’t visited a museum lately, you
might be amazed at the exhibits available.
Picnic
Picnics can be romantic or casual, and for a first date you should
shoot for the latter. Grab a few basics and head out to the park or
beach. Enjoying a meal out of doors is relaxing and a perfect
opportunity to get to know each other better.
Botanical Garden
Surround yourself in natural beauty at botanical gardens. Quiet
strolls through rose bushes and koi ponds offer a sense of peace and
tranquility. It would not be advisable to pick any of the flowers for
your date, but you can certainly bring along a camera and take pictures
together.
Ice Cream
Are you not ready to commit to a full-scale date? Try something
simple like ice cream. Find a good ice cream shop and let yourself go
wild. Diets don’t exist on first dates, so get an extra scoop and then
enjoy the afternoon together as you stroll and visit.
Ron
Zvagelsky has a degree in Business Administration from the University
of Southern California. He graduated Magna Cum Laude in May 2006. He is
currently the Chief Executive Officer of PlanJam.com - where you can
find first date ideas and plan a date.