It has often been told that men grow old but never grow up. It is therefore important to identify which traits and personality quirks you can tolerate, and those that you cannot.

People don't change. I have mentioned this fact in other articles, but it simply cannot be understated. Potty humor will most likely never grow old, even if your guy is successful in his working life, and well educated. Learn to tolerate his childishness but let him know what your limits are.

For example, a friend of mine is a university professor, a published author who just happens to own a farting machine. Yes, a FARTING machine. He even goes as far as to plant it under the seat of unsuspecting guests at dinner parties. The resulting confusion and embarrassment bring tears of laughter to his face! This man is successful, ambitious, very well off, by all appearances a dignified older gentleman, and still takes pleasure in simple humor on occasion.

To return to the point of this article, while men may not be perfect, with a little coaching and direction they can make great mates, excellent fathers, and provide stability and - dare I say it? - Happiness. You may have to roll you eyes, or indulge his inner child on occasion, but what is the alternative? Either you end up alone with far too many cats, or miserable. And besides, farting machines are uncommon.

The youthfulness or childishness of men can be endearing if you embrace it. Further, allowing men to fully be themselves can provide a solid ground to build a future full of happiness and love. While you may be thinking that not all men are immature or young boys wearing adult clothing, you may be right. But I guarantee it will not be any better. Picture it: dry cocktail parties, silence, and boring evenings. You would be better off with an occasionally childish man. What is important is having shared dreams, goals, ambitions, and plans for the future. A little silly humor on occasion isn't so bad, now is it?

If necessary, create limits and boundaries.

Men are wired differently than women. My intent here is not to throw around generalizations. I know full well that there are a proportion of men who does not fall into this category, and somehow manage not to be dull. However, embracing your man's inner child can provide an extended youthfulness and joy.

Enjoy each other's quirks, and appreciate the youthful spirit of one another. It will allow for a better future, and possibly making growing old together a little more fun.