Everyone agrees that both sexes are equal. However,
there are many situations when a woman finds that a man is sexist in
dating. You need to be aware of what you are saying before you engage
in a conversation with her.
There are two outcomes. She might run or she might have the best conversation with the smartest man she had ever met.
When
the dating discussion comes to career issue, men sometimes do not
realize that they actually deny women from working. It is sort of a
traditional process. But, women don't stay at home and look after their
kids as a typical post-marriage process. Men do not recognize this.
They consider women as the secondary income earner and that they must
be the primary breadwinners. There are many examples out there where
the woman is earning double or even triple the amount of salary their
husbands earn. But, the issue isn't about money. It's about them being
happy together.
The other time, when a male lawyer asked me that
he had angered his lawyer girlfriend unknowingly and she refused to
speak to him. When I asked him what he said to make his girlfriend so
furious, he grinned sheepishly and told me, "Actually, I said that her
sister should be paid less even though she is a Certified Public
Account because she chose to work in a low-paying job."
Instead of saying, "All of us should be the same. We are all professionals!"
Moreover,
when a man is not yet attached, he sees this problem as something that
is remotely concerned to him. It is only when there are experiences
when his wife or daughter who starts a career, he is then able to cast
the sexism issue in a better light.
Nowadays, modern women
believe in equality. Assure her by saying, "I see the problem about
your sister. And believe me, if I had the power, I will change this
system." Say one wrong thing about her career and you are out of the
dating game.
When
men discover that they cannot get the women they love, they blame that
it is because of their looks, all types of external factors and
everyone else. In fact, the trick about dating is just about the
techniques.
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