Being good-looking or rich is NOT the secret of being able to date beautiful women. The secret is easier than you think.

Have you ever been at the mall, see a Victoria Secrets sales lady and say "She would never go for a guy like me." Have you ever been to a beach and seen a beautiful girl with some, shall we say, not so good looking guy and wonder to yourself, "how in the world did he get her?" Yes, almost every guy has said this to himself at sometime in his life. What I found out is that every guy has the same chance as the next guy to date a beautiful girl.

What does every guy dating an attractive girl have in common? He, or someone he knows, had to have walked up to the girl and said something so they could get introduced. It's that simple. Most of us guys lack the self confidence to do such a thing. Walk up to a strange girl and talk to her? What do I say? She'll think I'm a loser or something.

Look at it this way, do you know what will happen if you don't go up and talk to her? NOTHING! In other words, you've got nothing to lose.

We, as guys, need to develop some backbone and get things done. Develop the self confidence that is needed to get to the spot you want yourself to be in. You have the same chance as every other guy out there, but you have to BELIEVE you do.

Learn the "So What." technique. If you say hello and she doesn't respond, "So What." If she doesn't laugh at your joke, "So What."

One thing is certain, if you don't approach her, you'll never go out with her. Figure out how to develop you confidence and the rest is history.