Having difficulty picking up women? Don't worry! All
you have to do is follow these simple methods and you'll be notice a
world of difference!
Say for example you want to pick up a woman tonight, but have no clue where to start?
Learning
how to pick up women can be one of the hardest things to learn. Your
friends are probably just as clueless as you are, and your family is of
no help at all. Even if they give you advice, it seems lame and would
probably make you look like a horses....you know what.
If you
want to get started doing this properly, you're going to need some
practical advice that really works! So let's get to it...
First off - here's what you DON'T need to pick up women.
You DON'T need to look like a Greek God.
This
is a huge misconception that troubles most men. Little do they know
that the majority of women (85%) place more value on how a man makes
them FEEL as opposed to his appearance.
So if you don't think you're a very attractive guy, don't worry! There's still hope.
Second - you DON'T have to break the bank and drive an expensive car!
In
today's day age women are getting more accustom to providing for
themselves. Women are perfectly capable of making a substantial income
and don't need a man to provide for them, like they did during the 40's
and 50's.
The type of women who are attracted to these kinds of
material possessions are not the type of women who you want to date.
They are immature and superficial and will have bring nothing to the
table.
Lastly, you DON'T need huge muscles, be a certain nationality or ethnicity, be famous, or any other things you can think of.
While
certain women may have a particular preference, it's not the "be all
end all". I mean you probably have your own preferences as well, don't
you? The secret is to have a great personality - this will eliminate
any other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you!
Interacting with women the proper way is the only thing that matters.
Unless
you're already a skilled pick up artist, you're probably not going to
have immediate success using these tips and tactics. However, if you
apply these and other tactics over time and learn from your
experiences, you'll find your success with women will skyrocket!
First
off you'll want to try and go out as often as possible to talk to women
- especially when you're first starting out. You may be intimidated
with "high pressure" environments like bars or clubs where it's loud
and difficult to talk with women, but they are place to practice and
hone your skills.
This is very important: you must devote some
time every day to go out and talk with women. The more you do it, the
better you'll get! It's that simple.
Every success and failure in
nightclubs will help to reinforce the things you need to do when you're
picking up women, and the things you need to avoid.
Remember: The
more experience you have, the easier it'll be. Also don't worry about
rejection, it builds character, and you will probably never see that
women again in your life.
When you do go out to gain this valuable experience with the ladies, try and look as sharp and clean as you possibly can!
There
is a huge difference between "looking good" and being "good looking".
You can't control what you look like but you can control your
appearance and how you look. Make sure you are prim and proper and
you'll have a head start.
Try and dress nicely - wear clothes
that fit properly, that match, and that look good on you. Try to wear
something up to date with today's fashions. If you need some help just
go to a mall and look at what the other men are wearing and imagine how
you would look in similar attire. Looking good will make you feel way
more confident! Ever heard of the term "power suit"?
Finally,
every good pick-up follows a structure. Its a series of steps you can
actually REPEAT time and time again and get similar results.
This structure is as follows:
Find a woman.
Walk up and meet her.
Start Talking and Gain Rapport.
Build Attraction.
There
you go - four simple steps is all you need! If you can find, meet, and
gain rapport with women, you'll find that you can build attraction with
them easily.
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