How many times have you been dating a great guy and
you get caught up in wondering whether or not you should call him? This
is one of those dating dilemmas that have been plaguing women for
years. They wait and wait by the phone to hear from their man. When a
day or two passes without word, they make the obvious choice. They pick
up the phone and call him. If you've ever done this you know that his
reaction isn't always what you hope for. If there's one rule that every
woman in a new relationship should follow it's to remember that men
should do the calling.
In the beginning stages of any new dating
situation, both parties are trying to gauge how the other feels about
them. There are some common mistakes that women make when they are
interested in a man and one involves the issue of phone calls. If you
go out with a guy and you two really hit it off, it can be puzzling
when he doesn't contact you soon after. Instead of sitting back,
relaxing and waiting for the man to call, many women pick up the phone
and track him down. Although some men are flattered by this, most
aren't. Men should do the calling after the first date. Just be patient
and wait to hear from him. It might take a few days or even a couple of
weeks, but if he's interested, he'll call.
If you are already
involved with a man, you likely have questioned when you should or
shouldn't be calling him. As women, we love keeping the lines of
communication open. We think nothing of calling our man up several
times a day just to see how he is. To many men, this comes across less
as affection and more as surveillance. If you call a man repeatedly
during the day, before long don't be surprised if he stops picking up.
He might use the excuse of being busy, but there's a very good chance
he's just getting tired of talking with you. If you are guilty of
calling the man you love too much, stop it now. Men should do the
calling at least some of the time. If you stop calling, he'll start.
Anytime you change the routine of you doing the checking in, he'll
start to wonder what you are up to. It's then that he'll decide it's
time to call you.
Men
and women view phone calls, emails and text in very different ways. If
you make the mistake of calling too frequently, at the wrong time or
before he's ready to hear from you, you can actually turn him off.
Women unwittingly ruin their chances of a future with a man because
they are too over eager to him from him. Don't let this happen to you.
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