Coming up with real good sensible questions that
leave a deep impression during a date can be as tough as setting up
that perfect date itself. Most people get extremely bored when dull,
mundane and generic questions such as "How's work today" or "Have you
taken your lunch" are posed to them. Give them a break! I am sure your
date has heard all these often enough.
To begin with, the main
reason why she went out with you is precisely due to the fact that she
expects you to be an interesting person. Some people choose to ask
questions that are relatively cheeky, while others wish to leave a good
impression on their date by asking witty questions. The trick to
success here is to combine both elements to generate questions that are
both interesting and leave a long-lasting impression.
As with most things, humor can take two distinct forms, slanting towards either towards being hilarious or peculiar.
The
trick here is not to be on the extreme hilarious side of humor. While
being funny is important, some jokes can be downright lame or so
hilarious that it completely spoils the entire mood of the date,
turning it into a comedy. It would be good if you are experienced with
this sort of questions as it means that you would be able to select the
appropriate questions, preventing you from being too overly hilarious.
Otherwise, do not try such questions for you risk being labeled a
crackpot if you find it hilarious while your date does not, or risk
spoiling the entire mood for the date should things go out of hand.
On
the other hand, humorous questions that have a more peculiar element
would be most suitable for most people including both yourself and your
date. It also provides the added advantage of you developing an even
deeper understanding of your date. What is labeled peculiar cannot be
agreed on specifically. However, most would come to a general consensus
that a peculiar question that is humorous would be of one that is least
expected by others. Questions you can consider include the following:
1. Which is your favorite domestic animal?
2. How would you feel if you were lost in the Amazon all by yourself?
3. How would you feel if you were in a white room with people all dressed in white?
4. State your favorite food and over three reasons why it is so.
The
first question offers you an idea of your date's view of others'
impression of her. The second question will let you understand her
outlook towards death. The third will let you understand her views of
marriage while the last will give you an idea of her attitudes towards
sex. Interesting isn't it?
So stop asking all that boring,
generic questions over and over again. Use your creativity to spice up
your date and let her have a long lasting impression of you as a
person. Better still, you get to know more about your date by means of
humorous questions that have a peculiar slant. Explore the options, you
have the freedom!