1. Don't pretend to be someone that you are not
regardless of what you think your date wants. If you aren't
off-the-wall funny or silly, then don't be. Don't be what you think
they want because sooner or later one of you will get tired of being
that person.
2. Make sure that your goal for the date is not
simply to have sex with that person. Regardless of if it actually
happens (after all we do live in a different age) if you are going in
with that goal then you will do things and say things that you don't
believe or don't accurately represent you.
3. Have rules from the
beginning pertaining to who is responsible for transportation to and
from where your date takes you. This may not ever be an issue, but say
something went terribly wrong and someone wanted to leave, how do you
get back home?
4. Be on your game as far as your personality goes
from beginning to end of this first date. This is the most frightening
of the dating rules to most people because it leads to the nerves, but
it is for a reason. This is their first impression of you, what they
will base the decision to continue dating or end things on, don't you
want to put your best foot forward?
5. If drinking alcohol is
absolutely unavoidable on your date make sure that you are being
cautious and aware of what and how much you drink. Aside from obvious
drunk driving concerns, this will make you look ridiculous in front of
your date, not a good dating rule to break.
6. Don't play games
with the continuation of the dating process if you are seriously
wanting to continue the relationship after the first date. In other
words, if you liked your date and want to see them again don't rely on
other dating rules that define when you can call. If you like them,
call them and see them again!
7. The above is if you actually
promised to call, another big part of the dating rules is that if you
promise to make a call...MAKE THE CALL. Don't promise to call if you
have not intention of doing so. It is unfair and just plain mean.
8.
Don't even go out on a date with someone if you are possibly in a
situation that could be labeled as "seeing someone". This is a major
one of the dating rules, it is not worth your time or theirs to go on a
date if it will inevitably end with, "I'm kind of seeing someone right
now".
9. If you are the driver on the date then be as calm and
cooperative with the rules of the road as you possibly can, for the
good of us all. There is nothing worse than someone trying to impress
by driving fast and being angry, it is an immediate turnoff.
10.
Movies are a convenient and popular area of interest for a date,
especially early in a relationship because most everybody likes going
to the movies. Listen to the dating rules and don't choose something
extreme to go see, like it or not, see something mainstream and
commonplace. In other words, "Forrest Gump" is a much better date movie
than "Silence of the Lambs" or "Beerfest".
Alex
Carter is the Dating Expert for 10 Good Tips, an online help site for
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