Have you ever noticed that when you are already in a relationship you meet more women than you ever did when you were single? Every time I get myself involved in a relationship and go out with the guys, I can't keep women away from me. I find myself thinking, "where the hell were all of these women when I was single!!?? Why are they all over me now?" The main reason is because I don't need them. I am not desperate at all, and women can smell desperation like three year old cheese. Of course there are degrees of desperation and you may only be exhibiting signs of slight desperation. I want to teach you to be aware of these signs and to make sure you're showing no signs of desperation. Here are some dead giveaways that you are desperate and how to avoid displaying them in the future:

Eyeing Too Many Women

At a club or bar are you eyeing every girl in the place? This is dead giveaway that you are desperate. Lots of guys think that women don't notice when you stare at every girl that walks by like a hawk. When a hot girl passes you by, do you have to check out her ass as she walks by? Even if you do this subtly, if you do it enough times, other women in the place will notice and instantly begin to perceive this as desperation. Now I know it's hard not to stare, especially with the way women dress these days, but you have to resist the urge! Is staring at that one girl worth lowering your chance of meeting the rest of the women in the place?

Paying Too Much Attention To Her

When you meet a girl at a bar or club, are you hanging all over her? Stop this immediately! You need to make it clear that you don't need her. If you show too much interest or attention you risk the chance of looking desperate. It's okay to let a woman know that you have some interest, but when you give her too much attention you will look desperate. Let her know that you have some interest and then play it cool. If you play it cool enough and use my other pick up techniques you should be able to get her number. Once you have her number the battle isn't over. Do not start paying too much attention to over the phone either. You don't want to signal her desperation alert. Are you calling too much? When you get a woman's number you shouldn't call her much between the first call and the first date. In fact, if you do it right, you only call her once, chat for a little bit thereby reestablishing the rapport that you developed when you first met her, and then plan a date. You need to sound interested, and enthusiastic about the date, but also very busy. Make sure that you are the one to end the call. The key is to sound like you have a lot going on in your life. Here's a trick to make this easier: Actually have a lot going on in your life! Get hobbies, hang with your guy friends, read books, etc.

Another way to make sure you are paying too much attention to her is to go out and meet other women. Never have just one girl you are pursuing, even if you think she's "the one". Having several women on your roster will make it easy for you to play it cool and not look desperate to any of them. They will sense that you are a man that has a lot going on and they will want you even more for that. Women love the thrill of the hunt. They love to think that they are the one who got you, especially when they know that other women are trying to get you too.