We have seen guys make some horrible mistakes when
dating - ones that ruin the whole thing? Sometimes they lose a great
girl over something that could have been easily prevented. Here are
some things to do that many guys seem to neglect.
Keep the
relationship FUN. Dating should be fun, I honestly believe that. Always
make sure that she is enjoying your company and she will love you for
it. Joke with her, tease her, and keep that smile on her face. When the
fun stops it's like the relationship gets cancer...it starts to
deteriorate slowly until one day it just dies. Do not let this happen,
keep things interesting at the time. Think outside the box, listen to
her and make sure she is always smiling.
Don't get into a routine
of going to the same place every time you go out. Try new things and
new places. Try different restaurants, walk beach at night, or pull the
ultimate surprise and cook dinner for her. If you keep mixing things up
it will be a constant thrill for her to be dating you and it will make
the relationship much more fun and enjoyable.
We found that one
of the biggest problems with dating, especially for young couples, is
communication. So avoid that and encourage her to share what's on her
mind. If she tells you something that you do not like, avoid turning it
into an argument. Instead discuss it and resolve it. Becoming angry and
arguing will cut the lines of communication and this most of the time
leads to the destruction of the relationship.
One thing that
helps me is to think of my girlfriend as my friend also. It makes
communication much easier and we are able to work out differences a lot
easier than if we were on pins and needles.
Keep it fun,
interesting, and talking things over are the keys to having a great
relationship. These things help to make both parties in the
relationship happy, which in turn keeps the relationship easy to
maintain.
Mikel
Ross is one of three young guys who recently developed an eCourse that
details five basic lessons to get from chatting with girls online to
actually physically meeting them. If you are interested in learning
more about our "5 Lessons to Meeting Girls Online" eCourse and learning
how to master this technique, please go here: http://www.prodaters.com.