What is one thing that women hate about men?
Is lack of money? Or is it a lack of good looks and a great body?
I
have asked many women this question and the answers have surprised me.
What I thought would be very important, like a lack of money, did not
seem to play a big role with most women.
After speaking to many women, it all seems to come down to the fact that they really hate needy men.
It seems women seem to be able to spot a needy, wussy man a mile off.
Most women seem very sensitive to feeling into a man. Most attractive
women get approached all the time and they seem to need to be able to
spot immediately if a man is worth the effort to get to know. If you
are a man, imagine being an attractive women and being approached 10
times a day by needy men. You would soon get really sick of men telling
you that you a beautiful and being asked, can I take you out?
It seems most men radiate a neediness that most women can feel.
Perhaps, part of this neediness is his body language.
What is one thing that women notice about a man's body language
immediately? It seems eye contact is the first thing a women uses to
test a man. If he holds her gaze till she looks away he has passed the
first test. If he can't even hold her gaze for a few seconds he is weak
and not worth the bother. Men that can hold a women's gaze for about 5
seconds and then smile are judged to be strong and this sparks
attraction.
What are some things that wussy men do?
I
feel that needy men always try to please the women by always agreeing
with her and not saying no to anything. In my experience, the more you
say no to a women the more she respects you and this stimulates
attraction. The more you say yes, the less she feels you are able to
hold onto yourself. If you say yes all the time she knows you can be
manipulated to do just about anything. Women want a strong man they
can't manipulate. They do not want be be a mother!
Many needy men
buy expensive presents to please a women. Buying flowers for all dates
would be an example. Also, letting the women get away with bad behavior is another example of needy mens behavior. For more examples of wussy behaviour, I have a list on http://www.yourdatingtips.com.
I
feel women test men all the time to see how they react. Will be hold
onto himself or fold like most needy men? I feel this behavior is
unconscious for most women. Men need to learn how to spot a women test and not fold.
Why
are most men needy for love and sex? I feel this is the result of not
feeling that they were loved enough from their mum in their early
years. They then seek a women to be a mum substitute on some level.
Most women can spot a mummies boy a mile.
The men that really get this are women magnets. Approach such men and see if they are needy around women.
Mauice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. To improve your relationships go to Free Dating Tips and to learn how to really kiss a women Free Kissing Tips