Do you look in the mirror and ask, "Who have I become?" Are you aghast at what you see? If you're exiting a relationship you've been in for five years or longer chances are you need a little TLC. Getting ready for the dating world means you'll want to make the most of what you've got. Read on for some tips on how to get cute fast.

Starting with your face:

• Nice smile but teeth could be whiter - get yourself some Crest strips - they work quickly, lightening several shades within a week's use. Nothing is sexier than a bright smile.

• Beautiful eyes looking tired these days?

Go get new make-up - try a color that contrasts your eye color - this should make them pop. Stay away from eye- liners in the purple family - they make your eyes look bloodshot. Get an eyelash curler from Shu uemura - fantastic curl will open your eyes making them look years younger.

* Skin need a fresh glow? Try this home remedy - add granulated sugar to olive oil for an inexpensive and effective scrub. Slough off those old layers of skin for radiant beauty.

• Hair Care - swing into a salon for a chic new cut. Be daring with your color or try brighter highlights. Doing something different with your hair screams fresh start.

Next stop, body check:

• Pudgy? If you've gotten comfy and slacked off on your diet and exercise you'll want to start a healthy program. Like it or not the world is visual and staying in shape is a sign that you care about yourself. Diet and exercise go hand in hand.

• In need of a mani/pedi? Just like women notice a mans shoes, men notice a woman's hands and feet. Nothing ruins a pretty summer sandal quicker than unkempt feet.

• Wardrobe outdated or mostly matronly? Clear your closet of plain and practical and treat yourself to some fun new frocks. You'll feel fresh and stylish. If you're on a shoestring budget try the $15 stores or scout the Internet for deals. You will find tons of affordable fashion items to help you update your look.

Don't let this overwhelm you - just think of yourself as a diamond in the rough. With a little polishing you'll soon be ready to dazzle the world with your sparkling new persona.