Move Over Gals in Your 20’s and 30’s

Flirtatious fun is not just for the young anymore. There’s a new group of hot women hitting the singles scene. Who are these lovelies? They are sexy, single women in their 40’s and 50’s – baby boomer bombshells who are looking for love and can still take a man’s breath away.

How do they do it? There are as many strategies to maintain looks and “hottie” status as there are people to take advantage of them. But here are some highlights to choose from and most can be followed by anyone.

Be the Real You

Gina’s method for sustaining her considerable allure stems from the way she feels about herself. She says when she hit her forties, she stopped caring so much about what other people thought of her and finally gave herself permission to just be herself. Now 53, if she feels like being an outrageous flirt, she simply does it. “I gave up second guessing myself all the time and have really moved into being the real me. No more holding back, I express who I am!” Gina said proudly.

With a playful spirit, Gina glows with a confidence that only comes with experience. This translates into a woman who is spontaneous and exciting. Of course she keeps herself up too with flattering clothes, natural-looking make up and a raucous head of red hair tumbling over her shoulders. Heads still turned when Gina walked back to the bar for another beverage.

Look Your Feminine Best

Sandy insists her 40’s and 50’s have been her sexiest years yet! She’s grown comfortable with her body even though there are a few little “wrinkles and rolls.” I make the most of what I’ve got and enjoy flaunting it a little” Sandy said with a sassy wink. She loves the styles that are in fashion currently and usually wears something a bit low cut and very feminine.

Let’s face it – Sandy enjoys being a woman. “I’ve always loved getting dolled up and now that I’m single again, I’m having a ball!” she exclaimed. She exudes a sensual femininity that she really owns. Sandy says men notice and approach her frequently because she let’s them know she’s open to them. “I ‘make eyes’ at men and it works almost every time.” she admits with girlish delight.

Take Care of Yourself

“It’s all about how you take care of yourself,” says Cheryl, 49 and fabulous. She works out on a regular basis, eats well, and indulges in professional spa treatments. Plus, Cheryl dances up a storm in ballroom competitions. “The joy that dancing brings me is almost immeasurable. I love it! When I’m dancing, I’m on top of the world.”

Partaking in her passion certainly agrees with Cheryl and it shows in the way she presents herself to the world. She is slender, toned, and ready for a twirl as she stands by the edge of the dance floor, tapping her foot to the music.

Cosmetic Options

Tiffany’s approach is a more bit expensive. Looking at her, it’s hard to gauge her age. “I’ve had a little work done and now when I look in the mirror, I like what I see. It’s been one of my best investments.” Tiffany revealed in a hushed voiced with a secretive smile.

Today there are many treatments available, from injections like Botox and collagen, to the nip and tuck of the knife. Tiffany is thrilled with her results and says her self-confidence has tripled. “It’s funny, but now I feel so much less self-conscious and free to do and say things that I would never have considered before.” Of course cosmetic surgery is a serious choice and isn’t for everyone.

Vibrantly Alive and Looking for Love

Whether you choose a new wardrobe or hairstyle, start working out, stop worrying about what other people think or consider more extensive measures, building your confidence and enjoying single life are very possible during the “middle years.” Clearly these women in their 40’s and 50’s aren’t living their days as shy wallflowers, but are vibrantly alive, meeting new people and making the most of today’s adult single scene to find the love they want.