Right now we are facing the unleashed unstoppable expanding power of web 2.0 . Millions of people are flying through the cyberspace and surfing from page to page. Quite a significant part is looking, in this specially created matrix, for attractive "super hot" human beings. They wonder why they cannot really find any.

On line dating has become a major player in this exposed virtual environment. Now more than ever, people have the freedom to literally "reach" thousands of people daily. What a weapon at their disposal! Is this bad, good or ugly? Of course, it's somewhere in between. After reading this you will have at least one epiphany that will catapult you years ahead of the pack. We still entertain the illusion that we are in control of this artificial universe. Unfortunately, the things that we think we control quietly end up owning us.

This happens because we give to the mind what it craves the most: unending continual systemic stimulation. In this moment of perpetual stimulation we stop thinking. We switch gears into the reaction mode. We only respond to external changes. We forget that for thousands of years our secret success key was to make a difference in the environment. We modeled the environment and the reality. We were not modeled back by our perception. We acted through our own intentions. We always went for what we truly wanted. Now is the time to claim this power back. Of course, after we chat for hours with our virtual friends something weird happens. We meet a real human being in person.

Many people just get anxious. They don't know why but they do it anyway. This happens most of the time when they even think about approaching and getting to know a new person that they find attractive. They imagine what will happen and the mind overprotects them by making them shy. I know what's all about. I've been in this situation and there are powerful new massively effective methods to get over it. I will not get into them for now. I'm only illustrating a point here. I want to make it as clear as possible.

Online dating and watching porn don't fulfill your instinctual emotional cravings. By doing this two habits, we slowly and steady begin to lose focus, time and energy. Our force and internal power dissipates itself. Suddenly we begin to feel depressed, anxious and sometimes simply bored. This doesn't happen by itself. It happens because we did something once. We game up out little chuck of our own will force. We felt a small instant reward. We did it again and before we knew it we became totally entertained. We get caught in the web of a new habit.

This new habit evolved and got stronger and more powerful. We saw once the highly and carefully selected and photoshopped photos of an online hot chick. We engaged a thought. We got distracted. One thought led to another we spend like this an entire evening. I'm not exaggerating especially if you think about the average number of hours that an average person watches television per day. I don't even want to mention them here. They are totally alarming!

After a while the weekend is coming. We get up and go to a club wanting to score big time tonight. Of course there is a pattern that repeats itself nearly every time. In the club, guys are looking and staring like to a commercial. They are looking at girls who are flattered and ego pumped up by the attention they are getting. Naturally, they become more selective and bitchy when you want to engage them in a conversation. Probably you got rejected or you felt rejected many times. If you think about it, this situation describes a perfect social controlled environment. The intuitive thing to do in this types of situations is to generalize and to make a conclusion out of it. This is how many people come up with an entire system of illusionary and self maintained beliefs. Overall this can accomplish only one thing. It magically creates a false sense of reality in their minds about what truly happens in the real life.

This leads to having entire patterns of thought based only on rationalizations. Quickly appears a sense of friction that has the next unnatural effect. It permits the presence of negative emotions due to the fact that we are denying the present moment and the reality. We are doing this for the simple reason of not believing that this reality can actually happen. Our beliefs say that this cannot be possible. So when it happens anyway, the system freaks out and we feel bad or anxious as a result.

Even though my first language is not English I hope that I sent to you a profound message. I like things that are practical and that can give you instantly powerful positive results. Let's wrap it up then. Don't give up your power and your life to useless and meaningless activities. If you zoom out from your perspective you will realize why this is so true and important. Act through your own intentions. Get first clear about what you want and go for it regardless of any external influences, opinions or obstacles. Get real with your life. Don't just take opinions from others and make them your own. Test them countless times first. The field doesn't lie and never will. You are already enough to accomplish anything and whatever anyone says differently is a lie. Probably, they have good reasons for doing it.

Good luck in your journey!