Ever wondered why some of your single friends seem to
get more matches through online dating than you? (We're not talking
about your friends who physically resemble Brad and Angelina here.) You
are all of a similar standard in the looks department, but some of them
just keep getting the matches. Perhaps you need to overhaul your online
dating profile. Check these tips below to ensure that your online
dating profile is as good as it can be:
Sell yourself up. You
should never forget that your online dating profile is pretty much an
advertisement for yourself. There is no point downplaying your
attributes. Demonstrate your best features in a positive light. Would
you purchase a car that had an uninspiring ad?
Show
individuality. Don't be afraid to stand out from the rest of the online
dating singles. People get bored reading the same descriptions over and
over. Make an effort to give different answers to others. Bland and
safe answers are boring answers and you will not catch any one's
attention by playing it safe.
Select an appropriate name. This is
a really important point that many singles overlook when online dating.
Single guys should note that girls do not think that any kind of dating
name that has overly sexual connotations is clever or appealing.
Everyone gets the names with 69 in them, no they are not clever, and
most girls find them a turn off. If you can't think of anything
original, or everything you can think of is taken, opt for your porn
star name. Your porn star name is the name of your first pet and the
name of your first street that you lived in. Play around with those
name combinations until you find something you like.
Display a
photo. Surveys show over and over that other singles will not date you
if they cannot see what you look like. This makes sense since
approximately 90% of initial attraction is based upon appearances.
Other online dating singles want to see what you look like now, not 10
years and 10 kilos ago. Ensure that your online photo is as flattering
as it can be. If you have great features make sure that they are well
displayed in the photo.
Be honest. There is no point lying about
your age and your hobbies. You are only wasting your time and everyone
else's. Be honest about what sort of relationship you are seeking.
There are plenty of singles in online dating for all types of
encounters. If you are not interested in long term relationships tick
one of the other boxes. Being honest on your profile gives you a much
higher chance of finding someone that you are genuinely going to have
things in common with.
Don't appear desperate. You may be
desperate and dateless. You may feel that you are hopeless. You may
have been single for a while. However, your online dating profile is no
place to display those thoughts. No one likes misery. The more
desperate you appear, the less singles you will attract. The trick to
online dating is to appear happy and carefree.
Spend some time
and thought on your online dating profile. Your online dating profile
is definitely not the place for 'near enough is good enough'. Your
online dating profile is the equivalent of you walking into a singles
club. Would you go there looking less than your best? Eye catching
online dating profiles do grab the attention of online dating singles.
Overhaul your profile now.
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